”I had just been asked to be a best man for the second time, and I had forgotten all that it entailed. Buying your e-book brought it all back and showed me some of the ways I muffed it up the first time around.  I especially appreciated your emphasis on preparation and organization, which not only saved me time, it made my best man speech the hit of the wedding. My own wife couldn't believe that was me up there! Cheers for all you put into this."

-J. Forin, London, UK

"THANK YOU for helping me make the nerves go away! Your book took my stress away and left in its place all the knowledge and tools I needed not only to pull off the bachelor party of the century and give the speech of my life, it also taught me about all the other responsibilities I didn't know I had. Thanks to the Bible, I now consider myself an expert best man. I may even put that on my business card!"

-P. Parmaganol, Austin, TX

 

"I ordered a few books on how to write a best man speech.  They were crap, so I went back to the Web and found your book.  I wish I started with it from the beginning, I could've saved £100 and would've had my speech prepared a month ago. Using your speechwriting resources and ideas, I gave the speech to end all best man speeches."

-J. Lifson, Cork, Ireland

 

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"Thank you for your great bachelor party section! It saved me so much time and money, it was worth it for that chapter alone!"

-D. Bitner, Vancouver, WA
    

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Why do thousands of best men the world over rely on The Best Man Bible year after year, wedding after wedding?

Simple—it has more information on your duties as best man, and how to go about them effectively and systematically, than any other book or website in the world. The Best Man Bible is the only book out there that helps you be so effective as best man, its organizational methodology and tips have been recommended by wedding organizers year after year. 

The Best Man Bible is the first-of-its-kind handbook dedicated exclusively to all the duties of being a best man, and is the only book in the world to be called "the be-all, end-all of wedding advice books for best men" by the editor of a popular wedding planning magazine.

Experience makes the difference: Developed and tested by thousands of best men

Most information about being the best man has been written by people who may know something about only one aspect of being a best man (e.g., how to write a speech, how to throw a bachelor party), without knowing much about the features and further responsibilities unique to this honorable position. Many such articles are written by (*gasp*)...women! Women who work for wedding magazines or web sites.  And guess where their information comes from?  Other women on other websites.  A simple web search for best man-related information bears this out, and ignores this basic fact:  expertise as a best man requires the experience of being a best man and the social pressure inherent in it. 

The Best Man Bible, in sharp contrast, was developed, tested and reviewed by men with extensive, first-hand experience in the art and science of being a best man. Men from the U.S., England, Canada, Australia, continental Europe, and even India contributed to the Bible.  And the result? The best and most widely applicable best man information has been analyzed, isolated, and collated down to a series of systems and recommendations that will make you the best best man you can be without anxiety or confusion. 

A recent survey in Modern Bride magazine which showed what wedding goers have known for years:  One in five brides stated that the content of the best man's speech alone could be described as "mortifying". Multiply that out by the 2.5 million weddings that happen every year in the U.S. alone, and you see what that number means. 

Don't be a statistic. Make the wedding you are a part of memorable for what you bring to it, not how you mess it up.

The Best Man Bible has been specially designed to give you all the tools you need to master your best man duties quickly, effectively, and without pissing anyone off. From organizing the bachelor party to the reception speech, from tuxedo etiquette to rehearsal dinner responsibilities, it's all here. 

 

How quickly can I master my best man duties with this book?

The Best Man Bible will save you hours, perhaps days, of useless calls, online research, and a steep trial-and-error learning curve by handing you the tools the experts use in the time it takes you to read our well-organized book. That's less than two hours, even if you are a slow reader and read it cover to cover.

An informal survey of Best Man Bible readers found that they had saved an average of 25 hours of work. But most important to Bible readers was the ease and aplomb with which they accomplished their duties, simply by following the structure and suggestions in the book.   

Others who have used The Best Man Bible reported that they preferred to jump right into the sections they needed.  When it was time to plan the bachelor party, they'd referred only to that chapter.  When it was time for the speech, only that section. And by using our handy Best Man Calendar (included with purchase), you can map out what you'll need to do and when, from bachelor party to speech and beyond, without sweating what you might have otherwise missed.

How much would you pay for an extra 25 hours of free time? What would you pay to get all of your best man tasks structured and organized in one day rather than fumbling through Internet articles on only one or another aspect of being a best man?

Many of the most popular self-help books and resources for best men charge more to cover only one or two aspects of the task--you may get some stock advice about the structure of a speech or a list of standard bachelor party activities. In sharp contrast, The Best Man Bible not only covers the bachelor party and speech in greater depth, it also tells you everything else you need to know to be a best man, taking you through check lists and schedules to help you prepare without perspiring.

How does The Best Man Bible save you time?

The Best Man Bible was developed using proven organizational methods to complete all of your tasks with minimal time and effort.

Eliminating the stress and confusion often associated with being chosen as best man comes down to preparation and practice. We've done all the prep work for you, saving hours you might otherwise spend researching your best man tasks. Once you understand the principles of being a best man and related tasks, you can eliminate unnecessary time and energy spent looking for 'how to' information and get right down to business using Tommy Virgo's unique time-saving ideas and organizational principles, all the while showing yourself to be the alpha male master of your domain that the groom (and bride) always hoped you were.

No serious best man should invest in any materials that claim to save time or money if they only cover one or two aspects of the job, and just hand you information rather than adapting it to your specific needs.

There are several aspects of organization one must understand to save time and do an exceptional job as a best man:

A) You must know "The Code"--a code of conduct unique to the best man.
My years of accumulated wisdom and research have yielded some specific rules of best man conduct that establish the underlying standards against which all of your actions as best man should be measured. There is a special Code associated with being a best man, and the uninitiated rarely know its precepts. Those who violate the Code can be subject to various punishments.  In our case, that can be anything from being called a jerk to ruining one of the most important events in your friends’ lives. No one else need know that you are operating from these precepts, but doing so will assure you of a flawless experience.

B) You must understand the full breadth of your duties.
If you’ve never been a best man before, or if you have and you did a relatively incomplete job, you may think your tasks begin with the bachelor party and end with a speech at the reception.  Wrong.  Those are perhaps two of the most well-known tasks, but your list of potential responsibilities may include any of a host of others, all of which we go over in detail.

C) You must use specific methods to best accomplish your tasks in a well-organized, effective manner.
Consider just the bachelor party for a moment. The structure of a bachelor party is similar to that of a tree, from roots to branches.  Once we know who will attend (the root of our social experience), we can figure out when and where it will occur, what kind of activities we’ll do there (branches) and how to organize those activities. We cover it all in a massive bachelor party chapter.

But, again, that's just the bachelor party, and there's much more to being a best man. Your position as best man is analogous to being the CEO of a large company.  You are responsible for the whole enchilada, the big picture.  The buck stops with you, but if you create a decent structure, you can remain well organized and stay on top of all the details.

What Does The Best Man Bible Contain?

Most modern weddings in the U.S. and Western Europe follow a basic structure with some variations.  The Bible goes into great detail about all of your potential responsibilities as a best man.  You'll get charts and diagrams telling you which duties should occur when. While the list of possible responsibilities may be long, in most cases you will not be expected to fulfill them all. 

The Bible has been organized in the order of your responsibilities as they occur over time. If you have plenty of time to get your plans together (say, 6 months or more), read the Bible beginning to end.  Keep a copy on your toilet or, if you live with someone neater than you, on your bedside table. Once you know your responsibilities, prepare for each using the tear-out Best Man Task Calendar. 

If you have less than 6 months, glance over the Task Calendar and pick through the chapters you need to get your tasks completed.  The Bible was designed so that you could jump around without missing a thing.  Unlike other books and websites, you will get all that you need in order to best perform all of your best man duties.

The Best Man Bible Includes:

-Preface
-Introduction
-History of The Best Man
-How to Best Use The Book
-What It Means to Be A Best Man
-The Vaunted History of the Best Man
-The Best Man Code of Conduct
-Understanding The Breadth of Your Duties
-What To Do First
-How To Organize Your Tasks
-Setting Up A Task List / Timeline
-The Comprehensive Bachelor Party Guide
-Planning The Tommy Virgo Way
-Bachelor Party Participant Selection
-When To Have Your Party
-Party Location and Length
-A Guide To Bachelor Party Activities
-Planning For The Length Of The Party
-Activity Ideas
-Detailed Logistics of Activities
-Tommy's Unique Way of Dealing With Money Issues
-Great Ideas and Really Poor Ideas for Bachelor Parties
-Special Informational Sections on Strippers, Cigars, Food, Drinks, Gambling, Delegation, Transportation, and More
-Tommy Virgo's Bachelor Party Oath of Secrecy
-Little Known Pre-Wedding Best Man Duties
-The Rehearsal Dinner
-Comprehensive Wedding Ceremony Information
-Details on The Reception And Your Duties There
-The Comprehensive Best Man Speech Guide, from Dealing with Fear to Preparation and Performance
-Real-life Examples of What To Do (And What Not To Do) As Best Man
-Tear-Out Appendices With Helpful Information...
-And Much More

By purchasing this comprehensive, best-selling e-book, you will learn the secrets of the world's most experienced best men, including:

-How to be an alpha male (and why it's important)

-How to deal with pressure

-How to avoid common (and sometimes fatal) best man mistakes

-Recognizing and understanding the three kinds of weddings

-The first three tasks you should do as soon as you are asked to be a best man

-The unique, lesser-known tasks of the best man prior to the wedding, at the wedding, and at the reception

-How to pay for everything without paying for very much

-How to set up a timeline of tasks unique to the wedding you are "best manning"

-Creating the best bachelor party in the history of the modern world, from planning to execution: what, where, when, and how.

-How to establish an exceptional, high-touch electronic communications infrastructure

-How to delegate tasks so that you are in control without being responsible for all the details

-A unique solution to keeping your best man-related expenses in check

-How to plan for everything from a one-night bachelor party for a nerdy groom to a 3-day experience for party animals

-How to find unique, quirky gifts

-Resources for mixing drinks and drinking games

-How to organize an adventure bachelor party

-Planning for the unexpected

-The secret bachelor party oath

-What you need to know about tuxedo rentals and returns

-How to make a great impression at the rehearsal dinner

-Your rehearsal dinner speaking responsibilities (yes, you may have to give a speech at the rehearsal dinner and the reception)

-What it means to be a Body Man at the wedding (it's not what you think)

-Essential wedding day tips and tools

-What items you must carry with you throughout the wedding and reception

-What to do if the groom does not show up for the wedding

-Your responsibilities to those who couldn't make it to the wedding

-What you need to do for the couple's honeymoon

-How to prepare your date for your duties as best man on wedding day

-Understanding the essential elements of the standard best man speech

-How to appear confident (even if you're not)

-The specific process of practicing for your speech

-How to give a speech without using notes (even if you're nervous)

-The two keys to overcoming fear and giving a great best man speech

-Unique, unusual best man speech ideas

-Knowing what you absolutely must not say in your speech

-How to deal effectively with hecklers

-What to do if your speech bombs

-How to deal with your post-wedding responsibilities

-How to organize a great after-wedding party...without any organizing at all

 

Order by and receive the following bonuses in the ebook:

-The Tommy Virgo Bachelor Party Money Management System. A system borne out of experience that keeps you from breaking the bank when planning and executing the bachelor party.

-The Best Man Timeline and Task List.  An essential guide to the when and what of your duties which can printed out and posted conspicuously to keep you on task and stress-free throughout your best man experience. 

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